Taking another man with me to China, NOT my fiance?

Background Info: I'm 22 %26amp; studying world history in college. I'm planning on going on a short trip to China next Spring Break, something I've wanted to do for YEARS now. My close friend Daniel is a teacher at a martial arts/kung fu school, and would LOVE the opportunity to go to Hong Kong and visit the Shaolin temple, since he studies under a Grand Master who studied at Shaolin.





I want to take my friend Daniel to China with me. It just makes sense.





My fiance is jealous and says that taking another man to another country with me is crossing the line.





Fiance is an ex-Marine who has been to many difference countries and I haven't, and I'm a world history major. Of course I would take HIM with me to China, but he has no deep interest in it. Daniel on the other hand DOES, it's his dream.I would rather travel to a country with someone that's going to enjoy it as much as I do, not have someone "tagging along", just because. If that's the case, I'd rather just go by myself. What to do? :(

Taking another man with me to China, NOT my fiance?
tell your fiancee that daniel is going with you, and if he cant trust you , then you shouldnt be getting married in the first place. tell him, that you trust him, he could of picked up hookers in those countries and other stuff, make him feel guilty, tell him, you completely love him, and daniel has been there for you for ever.....
Reply:Well your NOT going to have this fiancee TOO much longer if he finds out..
Reply:Dump the boyfriend he will control you more when you get married. You must visit the cable car when you travel to the temple and of course Disney one will do it since the queues are not like usa.
Reply:If you are engaged, you should not be traveling to China for a period of time with another man, even if he is your friend. Your fiancee has a right to object, and I think you are putting your relationship with him in jeopardy if you go with Daniel.


\Chow!!
Reply:dont get canned
Reply:Sounds complicated. I may not have an answer but I do have a story. I went on a European vacation with a good friend's girl friend, the friend isn't the jealous type so there was no problem there. The problem was that the sexual tension between us made it really hard on me. I found myself wanting her more and more. We spent a night in Paris and it was the most romantic night imaginable. But I stayed strong and I resisted the urge to make a move. Jealousy is a horrible thing!
Reply:I can understand why your fiance wouldn't like it...


but I can also understand your situation and how you want to go with your friend since you both have similar interests.





I think your fiance should really trust you on this one. Even though it's not the best time to go on this trip since you're engaged, go on if you really want to.